Reminder

Sometimes I get caught up in the daily tedium of life--the never ending "to-do" list, the battle to just keep my sanity amid the voices of five little people all fighting and fussing at once, and the millions of different directions I feel pulled in trying to take care of everyone--that I forget to be grateful for this life that I've created. Benny always helps me remember. He reminds me that a smile really can make everything better. He reminds me that it's ok to slow down a little; I don't have to rush through everything. He reminds me that doing my very best is enough. I love this little boy for so many reasons, but especially for his constant reminder to me that what matters most usually isn't on my "to do" list at all.

Benny got to participate in his first primary program on Sunday. He was nervous, but he did great! His line was, "John the Baptist was baptized."

Bros

For all of the fighting and wrestling, bugging and annoying, these brief little moments of loving, teaching, learning, and sharing make me feel like maybe these boys really do love each other.

Max is 6!!!

I love this boy to bits. Max is a really special kid. One of the reasons that I love Max so much is that he naturally possesses many of the qualities that I have worked by entire life to develop without much success. Max is very generous. If his teacher gives him a snack at kindergarten or a treat in primary, he always asks for a second to give to his brother. He will use his own allowance money to buy a treat for someone else. He will happily share his last skittle or sip of pop. Max is very slow to anger and quick to forgive. It makes my heart break a little when, out of frustration about something, Ben will hit or push Max, and instead of react, Max will just turn away. If I ever become upset with Max, he will apologize with sincerity and then ask me to forgive him. Max is fun to be around. Whenever I feel like taking a walk or need to run an errand in the evening, Max is my go-to buddy because I just like his companionship. He's always upbeat, always easy-going, always happy. See what I mean? Max is just a genuinely good kid. I am so proud of this little boy and so blessed to call him mine.

After our Mom Date and learning how passionate Max is about golf, Aaron got busy finding a new set of clubs (his old set was too short) for Max to use while he played a birthday round of golf with Aaron.

Of all the places he could have chosen, Max picked to have his birthday dinner at Chuck-a-Rama. I recall eating at Chuck-a-Rama 20+ years ago when we'd go visit my grandparents--they loved the tapioca and the senior discount and I liked to serve myself soft serve ice cream. My memory didn't fail--we were the only diners under 60. Max sampled a piece of pizza and a few french fries, but was most excited about the all-you-can-drink chocolate milk and the slurpee machine. If I don't eat at Chuck-a-Rama for another 20 years, it'll be too soon.

I think Max is saying, "awwwwesome!"

Birthday Eve

One of my favorite family traditions is taking the birthday boy out for a Mom Date the night before their birthday to share some one-on-one time and talk about the upcoming year. For Max's Mom Date, he chose to go to a do-it-yourself frozen yogurt place. He topped his frozen yogurt with gummy bears, cookie dough, gumballs, dots, M&Ms, and hot fudge--and I didn't even say anything! While he was spoiled with treats, I just enjoyed spoiling him even more with all of my love and attention.

An Interview With Max:

1. What about turning 6 are you most excited about? "I could help my brothers out."
2. What is something that you're really good at? "I'm good at golfing."
3. What is your favorite thing to eat? "Steak."
4. What is your favorite treat? "Icecream and peanut butter cups."
5. What do you want to be when you grow up? "Allstate worker."
6. Where would you go if you could go anywhere in the world? "Every golf course there is in the whole wide world."
7. What would you like for your birthday? "Lots of golf stuff, thousands of nerf guns and Legos and baseball cards."
8. What is your favorite cereal? "Cap'n Crunch peanut butter."
9. What makes you special? "I'm really good at sharing."
10. What is your least favorite food? "Brussel sprouts."
11. What is your favorite color? "Blue and white."
12. What is your favorite movie? "Mr. Peabody and Sherman."
13. If you could have one wish, what would it be? "A real gun."
14. Who is your best friend? "Everyone."

Last Summer Getaway

We're going to have to scale back our birthday tradition because things are beginning to get out of control. Now we're doing destination water park parties for our six-year-old?! Max is a lucky, lucky boy. The truth is, I was itching to visit my new niece in St. George, we had a hotel certificate that needed to be used before it expired, our season passes to Cowabunga bay get us free admission to the sister park in Las Vegas, we felt like squeezing in one more summer getaway before saying goodbye to the heat, and so we decided to make a quick visit to St. George/Las Vegas and score some extra "parent points" by dubbing it Max's birthday party.

I've never understood it when people say it is, "too hot" outside. I love the sun! As a rule, I say the more sun the better. I think after our trip to Las Vegas, I may have to make an exception to my rule. When the pavement is so hot that your feet blister, it takes 15-20 minutes to wait in line for each slide, and it's two hours past nap time...it's too dang hot. We all had a great time, but after several hours of swimming, splashing, and sliding, we were wasted. The water park kicked our butts.

New Tricks

This little boy is learning all kinds of new tricks.

He cut his very first tooth:

He's climbing stairs:

And he's even beginning to stand all by himself:

Labor Day

When we pulled into the deserted parking lot of This is the Place on the morning of Labor Day, I started to feel worried that the park was closed and regretted that we hadn't called ahead to check the hours of operation. Turns out that we picked the perfect day to visit the park--the weather was beautiful and we had the place to ourselves!

Sometimes I like to think about returning to a simpler life...it seems so wholesome and quaint. But then I remember how much I like my dishwasher and my temperpedic cloud lux breeze king size bed and I thank my lucky stars for all the comforts of home.

Benny was amused by the little baby chicks, but didn't love holding it...immediately after this picture, he tossed the little chick in an excited flutter (don't worry, the chick was unharmed).

I guess people must have been really short back in the day...