Thursday, July 17, 2014

Hank's Special Baptism Day

I remember a Sunday, about eight years ago, when I sang the primary song, "I hope they call me on a mission," to my newborn baby son as I sponge bathed him and then dressed him in his tiny little white satin tuxedo for his special blessing day, his first ordinance, thinking about the all the special milestones and ordinances that my little babe, with his thick, dark hair and full pink lips and floppy ears would someday experience. And then I blinked and that little babe was putting on his own white button-down shirt under his black pressed suit on his special baptism day, just as sweet and smiling and pure as he was on that Sunday eight years earlier.

Hank was ready to be baptized. No nerves, no reservations, no questions. In the past few months, we've attended several baptisms of friends and family members, so Hank was familiar with the process. Hank and I read articles from the Friend magazine each night before bed in the weeks preceding his baptism to help him understand the covenants that he would be making. He was interviewed by the bishop to determine his worthiness to be baptized and he met with the primary president to discuss some of the practicalities and logistics. We held a special Family Home Evening on the Monday night before his special day to talk about Hank's accountability for his sins after his baptism and the role of the Atonement as he continues to make mistakes in life, the gift of the Holy Ghost, and did a dry run of the actual immersion process. On the morning of Hank's baptism, he and I read a special book together and shared our testimonies. When the time finally came to change into his white jumpsuit and enter the waters in the font, Hank was sure.

As Hank begins to prepare now for his next special day four years from now (when he will receive the priesthood), I hope that Hank will always remember his baptism and the feelings he felt on his special day. I hope Hank will remember all of the family members that gathered with him around the font to support him in his decision to become a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, especially the faces of his four little brothers who peered over the edge of the font, with admiration and adoration, as their big brother set a righteous example for them to follow. I hope he remembers the testimony shared by his Nana Grover that Heavenly Father hears and answers our prayers and the counsel given by his Papa Z to be a follow the promptings of the Holy Ghost. I hope that Hank remembers that, through the Atonement, he can always feel as pure and clean as he felt when he came up out of the water. I hope Hank will always have the same confidence and firm knowledge of the truthfulness of the gospel as he felt when he shared his own testimony after his baptism and at church the following day. I hope Hank will always know that he is loved immeasurably and unconditionally by his earthly parents and by his Heavenly parents.

I am brimming with pride in the incredible young man that my little babe is growing into and I'm so blessed to have nurtured and guided him through his journey from blessing to baptism. Well done, my son.
















Independence Day

You see this face right here (below)? That is the face of a guy that wakes up at 4am on his day off to reserve space along the parade route for the rest of us lazy folks who like to stroll up to the parade as it's starting to find our chairs all lined up and waiting for us. He wasn't happy about his assignment, but he did it anyways, and I love him for it. We do love the Provo Freedom Festival parade, but I think next year we may break from tradition and find a parade that doesn't require quite as much advance preparation.


I am hereby suggesting that the Freedom Festival needs to increase it's budget to buy a few boxes of tootsie rolls to throw out to all the kids (and their hot, exhausted moms) lining the parade route. We loved the bands and the horses and the BYU teams, but we could have really used some candy to combat the beating sun and the wait time between floats.


I love you, too, Benny!

It's just not Independence Day if there isn't some sort of picnic or barbeque. We congregated at the Grovers' house (I like to call it the "homestead") for Papa Grover's grilled steak and Nana Grover's scones. Benny just ate up all the attention from his Nanas and Papas and aunts and uncles, but really seemed to favor his Aunt "Feather."


We finished the night watching the fireworks display from our back deck.

Of all the generations of time and places around the globe that I could have been born into, I feel pretty lucky to live in a time and place where my family is safe, we have plenty of food to eat, we are able to worship according to our own conscience, and our future is bright. God bless the U.S.A.

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Arizona Weekend

Aaron and I got the spend the weekend in sunny Scottsdale, AZ for an awards recognition with Allstate.

Arizona was H-O-T! I didn't mind it so much being that I shaded myself under an umbrella and sipped cold drinks beside the pool, but I can't imagine how people live in 110+ degree heat.




Aaron played a round of golf while I read a book from the hotel balcony. We were both so exhausted from such a tiring morning, that we relaxed for the rest of the day at the pool.

This fancy late-night room service treat cost $28! Yikes!


Besides just enjoying the retreat, the real purpose for the trip was to honor Aaron's business success with a fancy dinner and reception where he was presented with this bling ring:
I think I'm beginning to get used to this cushy jet set life style, so you better keep up the hard work, Aaron, so we can send ourselves on more fancy excursions next year! This is the life!

Back to Work!

Call me a slave-driver, but with the great progress Ben made during preschool this year, I can't let up over the summertime. It's back to work for this little boy. Luckily, he thinks his "work" is pretty fun and looks forward to his weekly swim lessons, horse riding lessons, and private tutoring sessions. I'm so happy that Ben has his own recreational activities that give him a sense of self-confidence and fulfillment as well as physical activity and therapy.



Father's Day

Just kidding, honey. Kinda ;)


For Father's Day, Aaron got to take the morning off from church meetings and enjoyed his favorite breakfast: eggs benedict.

The boys sang a special song at church, showered Aaron with lots of hugs and kisses, created a few heartfelt tokens and drawings, and helped me present Aaron with his gift: a fire pit!



Overheard:

Hank: "Mike Zunniga has been hitting really good this week. He's been having a good season so far, huh Dad?"

Hank: "Is that Dodge Charger a two-door or a four-door?"

I am so grateful that my sons have a Dad that teaches them everything that I can't. He teaches them about the MLB team ranking system and how to dunk chocolate chip cookies. He teaches them how to operate the lawn mower and how to set up a movie on the AppleTV. He teaches them how to pitch a tent and start a fire and how to tie a necktie. He teaches them how to dive in the swimming pool and throw a spiral with the football. He teaches them to be honest and to work hard. He teaches them how to be a man, how to treat women, how to be a priesthood holder, and how to be a father. 

Thank you, Aaron, for being our sons' hero. Happy Father's Day!

Man Camp

I asked Hank and Max what their favorite part of the annual Father/Son overnighter was and they said, "doing whatever we wanted to and eating candy for dinner!" Ok then! And that is why I only let Aaron be in charge of the boys one night out of the year!



Ben was super excited to be included in the camping trip this year, but when it came time to walk the walk and sleep outside in the tent, he was very persistent about wanting to go home:


 Immediately after I received the above text, Aaron sent me this picture:

Meanwhile, I enjoyed some park time with my littlest dudes, followed by a leisurely bath (a rare treat for the babies to get to soak and play and not just get in, get scrubbed, and get pulled out).



Once the babies were in bed, I made myself a batch of no-bakes and ate them warm, straight out of the bowl. Gooey treat + cooking channel + peace and quiet = Heaven!

Boy Mom Problems

Just three months ago, I replaced Hank's hole-in-the-knees jeans with a couple of pairs of brand new jeans. Summer hit, I threw the jeans in the drawer for safe-keeping until fall. Here is what I found when I pulled the three-month-old jeans out of the drawer to pack for a camping trip:

I have a feeling this is only the beginning of this particular problem. The good news is that now I won't have to buy Max any new jeans to replace all of his hole-in-the-knees jeans!